• Boomer Humor Doomergod
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    316 months ago

    I’ve heard from a lot of women that a portion of men take any attempt to provide suggestions as a direct attack on their masculinity

    • @inv3r510n@lemmy.world
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      236 months ago

      Not just men, I’m a lesbian and I’ve experienced this with women too. Some people are really sensitive to constructive criticism especially during intimacy.

      • @swordofdamocles@lemmy.world
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        46 months ago

        especially during intimacy.

        Well that does make sense when you think about it. That’s when you’re at your most vulnerable. I personally wouldn’t mind because lust overpowers all of my other emotions during sex lmao. Though for some people, I think it would be best to talk about it after the deed is done.

        • @inv3r510n@lemmy.world
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          26 months ago

          Yup that’s definitely why. And a lot of people other than the hyper sexual have a lot of insecurities around sex even if they didn’t grow up in a culture that made it taboo.

    • @namarupa@lemmy.world
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      76 months ago

      This happens when providing suggestions to anyone about anything when you’re dealing with an insecure person.