Married since 2018.

  • @betweenthewinds@lemmy.worldOP
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    2210 hours ago

    He’s a judge, he’s financially comfortable. But I’m a notary with my own practice, so I’m also financially comfortable on my own.

    • cabbage
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      69 hours ago

      Is it particularly common for judges to have this kind of age difference? Do you think his profession is part of the attraction?

      I’ve seen it before with a legal scholar and an international judge. I only met them together when he was maybe late 70s and having suffered a stroke, so the age difference was maybe more glaring than when they first met.

      • @betweenthewinds@lemmy.worldOP
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        59 hours ago

        I don’t know really, or more specifically I’m not sure. What I do know if you want to talk about judges (both women and men) is that a lot of them are married and in open relationships (or just straight up cheating). Similar with doctors. There’s a saying that people are only as loyal as their options, and in professions seen as “powerful”, you have many options, since for many people power is attractive. It was part of the attraction for me, but I’m also in the same field of work (legal).