• @FourWaveforms@lemm.ee
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    314 days ago

    after you get through all the asking each other stuff to get to know each other’s histories etc phase, it’s okay to just not talk all the time

    • @milicent_bystandr@lemm.ee
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      23 days ago

      It’s not just histories and facts, though. Sure, you don’t have to talk all the time, but sharing feelings and connection, in a relaxing way, through small talk, helps maintain and build that connection. More important for some people than others.