Before we all die in WW3 I’d just like to say: It’s “Oh for fuck’s sake.”

Well, shit.

He should shave his beard and get a slick back.

A real glizzy gladiator!

I mean, what sort of a psychopath do you have to be to give a single fuck about working in manufacturing?

is being yourself, not artificially bending towards what you think will look attractive.

If I’m understanding you correctly. Those things aren’t necessarily exclusive to each other in my opinion. I am constantly thinking of something funny to say because I like saying funny or flirtatious things. And you can learn these things, yet still hold true to oneself.

as a customer?

No, no, as her supervisor.

Must a be one hell of a coffee.

And how’s that going for ya?

What are you doing?

Never buying anything at all from Amazon, ever. This Amazon Boycott ain’t got shit on me, cuz.

Ooooooh 7 whole days??? That’ll teach 'em. What is this, Whale Wars?

Safe from what?

Safe from making someone uncomfortable?

And who says it’s important?

According to folks over at my previous posts. (Though they also emphasised communication)

I think, I’m somewhere in the middle of all that. I’m fine with flirting, I’m more or less indifferent about it (I like it if she responds well to it). But if it wasn’t as important as people say it is, I don’t think I would do it, just to be safe.

But I’m not in a relationship?

Thank you! That was very thorough and clear.

Of course you still need to find a way to show interest

Do you have any tips on how to do that?

Damn, that’s without a doubt a perfect synopsis of what’s going on here. Seriously, I’m impressed.

“What difference would the answer make?”

If the answer is: “Yes, it’s very important.” Then I know what to improve. If the answer is something along the lines of: “The important part is the connection between the two parties.” Then I don’t know what to do, to be honest.

Romantic/sexual banter.

I get the whole “Just the be yourself” message. But right now things just aren’t moving. Like, at all. And I do have plenty of hobbies. Even meeting women is genuinely not a problem for me. So I’m kind of stuck between the being myself and changing strategies. To be honest with you. If being myself means I don’t ever find someone, which over the years have quite clearly proven to be the case. Then I say: “Fuck being myself.”

I don’t know why everyone else here says “No.” Maybe it’s down to preference.

Well, at least it makes the discussion more interesting.😅

And I usually don’t have any ulterior motives.

Well I for one usually do have said ulterior motives (I want to see them romantically). Shouldn’t I then be a bit more (flirtatiously) direct with them?